The kids were sleepy. They went to bed. It was dark outside. And I went out and did the thing I had been wanting to do for a while, but really couldn’t due to the extremely hot weather.
I set up our firepit, lit the one “fuse”, and soon had a fire going. I fed it with tons of wood, probably more than I should have, and it felt good. It was chilly – perfect weather for a fire. A romantic fire. So I went to get my wife ….
But she was already coming out with two glasses of wine. Our thoughts were Right <> There. We moved our chairs closer to the fire and to each other, and sat and stared at the flames wordlessly – and sometimes at each other, just as wordlessly.
From out of the silence – well, relative silence, since we’re about 100 yards from a major street – came some faint music. And we took out our phones and punched up YouTube, something we do quite often. We exchanged videos, and listened to them become the soundtrack to our perfect evening. Most of hers were from our past, when we met, which are sentimental to her and to me. Most of mine were songs from now, where we are now, which are how I feel about her now. Hers were songs like Glycerine by Bush, and High by the Cure, and Enjoy the Silence by Depeche Mode. Mine were songs like Mata Yume de Aimashou by Miyavi, and Don’t Look Back by Telepopmusik, and Sextape by Deftones.
That last song made my wife sit up and grab my phone to see who it was. It’s this:
We of course had several more glasses of wine, and burned lots more wood for our fire, and even discussed looking at the Perseids, though that turns out to be more of a pre-dawn thing. But on one occasion, as my wine glass was nearly empty, it occurred to me to take this picture:
You can see prints and reflections – but the fire contained within the wine glass is nearly perfect. The only way it could be improved is if I could somehow add Sextape in the background. (I think this post just did that!)
The night after that took a magical fiery turn. It got really romantic. Let’s just say that I hope the neighbors weren’t looking out their windows at our back yard after 1:00am. Though, to be honest, I really couldn’t care less. WE couldn’t care less.
The night ended, he said delicately, and after some more fire sitting and wine finishing, we went inside. I watered the general area around the patio with the hose, and then put out the embers, just to be safe.
But the embers of that night will burn forever….
Edward Hotspur

Sounds like you and the missus grabbed a perfect evening.
Rock on Hotspur.
There weren’t any fireflies, but other than that, yeah, it was extremely memorable.
You are such a romantic. I have often thought, when sitting around a fire, that it is one thing that almost every human has in common. We have all looked into the flickering light at some time in our lives. And not just modern humans. Our ancestors did it. It was the original caveman TV. Fire unites us all into one tribe.
It’s got warmth, light and motion.
Just like you…
“We couldn’t care less” is when some of the best memories happen! (And if the old neighbor lady peeking out her window put the video she took on You tube, you & the Mrs. will be famous!)
Yes we will, because of the wonderful things we does.
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Eww you had sex outside. Now Aliens know how we do it.
How did you know they were spying on me? Unless you’re spying on them!
I was spying on you and they were spying on me but I caught them so I guess you could say everyone was caught after I caught you.
You only busted them so you could get the video.
I have my own video. I was putting it to music to send as an anniversary gift. Bow chicka…wow wow
We aim to please. Side note: Second day of school. Mothers and their kids at the bus stop just across the street. Hotspur comes out to his car. One of the ladies, my next door neighbor, elbows another and they both look at me and smile.
I’m not arrogant enough to think they were all up in me, since she’s lived next door for a year…. which leaves only one possibility I can think of…..
*blush*
*BLUSH* HA you planned the whole thing to get people to sign up for neighborhood watch. BTW where is that list???
Not Neighborhood Watch Me. The list is…. Hey!
In reality this post made me envious! Beautiful!
Well, I’m already married, so… oh wait, I see what you’re saying. Thanks!